A perfect marriage is when both partners does not fight or argue... but that dont exist... married life will be boring if it wasnt for the arguements or simple misunderstandings... that will test your patience and love for each other...
Friends idolizes my husband and I's relationship... we are on our 13th year of marriage... in 2 months we will be 22 years together... 9 years bf/gf and 13 years of marriage. Ours was not perfect. We fight, we argue, we shout at each other... sometimes he walks out, sometimes I leave just not to make our agruement long... because too many words spoken from the mouth during arguements will just make things worst. Before the day ends, the fight will be changed to sorries, forgiveness and love...
There is a saying... "the only permanent thing on earth is CHANGE...
Everything changes... your looks, your perception, your outlook in life, your maturity, the love changes.. some times you fall out of love or the love is gone... well, i dont really believe that when you love somebody then after several years i just fade away or you fall out of love... I believe that when you love someone you love him or her forever... I just only depends on the intesity of the love or what kind of love you have given the person.
I still love my husband up to now and until the very end... how much i love him? well, i love him to the moon and back... it is infinity... nothing compares my love for him... i just wish that he knows that!
Sometimes in a relationship there is a plateau... it stops there... for me, this is what you call the comfortable stage... when everything you do is ok .. "because i know my wife or husband understands"... "because we are used to it... " "kse hindi na uso yan... " " kse matatanda na kami"... but you know simple things like a kiss when you go home or when you are leaving for work is a big thing for me... a flower during valentines day makes me feel important... saying sweet nothings behind your ear makes me kilig... a date without the 2 kids reminice our college days... walking holding hands... i miss these things... yung pampakilig...
Maybe we should renew our vows... i think this will help us bring back the value of our love... our relationship... medyo gigisingin ng konti... para kiligin ulit... because hindi naman siya nawawala o nababawasan... it's just in its plateau stage...
I love you daddy... I love you very very very very very very very very very very very very very very much!!! just like old times...
